Friday, May 9, 2014

Wedding Registry!

Let's go shopping!!!

So a couple weeks ago I visited my best friend Haley in Huntsville to work on my wedding registry! Now I know that most couples do their registries together, however, shopping through home décor and cookware seems more of my type of leisurely activity than Johnny's. I'm sure that Johnny is grateful too, for sparing him the giddy high that this girl gets while shopping. I'm even worse with Haley, since we both delight in the prowl of shopping for the newest intrigues. Also, apart from being excellent company, Haley has a wealth of knowledge to impart on anything related to cooking, which made her the perfect partner in crime to help me load up my registry with lots of goodies for an otherwise kitchen and cookware poor moi.

The aim of my registry was to rectify this of course and prepare my kitchen for cooking once more. I love to cook and before I moved to Chattanooga I cooked all the time. Sadly, however after moving several times in the last few years around Chattanooga, I have lost most of my cookware, utensils, and appliances. Johnny has had about the same luck during his moves. The few times that either of us have attempted to cook at our houses, we have been thwarted by the necessity of some little thing, whether it was a can opener on one occasion or a pizza pan the next. Sometimes we even had the item, it just happened to be at the other's house. Yet, another less worrisome dilemma is that of duplicates between the two of us, but that problem has a much easier solution; we'll just keep the best of the two and yard sale or donate the other. That being said, I know the kitchen is definitely an area that is lacking a few cooking essentials that I have placed on the registry.

My other aim for the registry was to simplify the clutter. Over the years, Johnny and I have both collected an eclectic assortment of sets of utensils. An example that comes readily to mind are measuring cups. I alone have about three different sets, each missing one or the other and married together to make a complete set of measurements. I can only imagine how nice it will be to have just one complete set that will fit neatly within themselves and diminish the clutter in the drawers. So it's easily imaginable how these small incidences and considerations contributed to the majority of the items on my registry. In fact, I kept the items predominately in the kitchen and cookware department.

For my registry, I decided to register at Belk's. There are tons of places that couples can register and it really depends on your preference. The three stores I considered the most were JCPenny, Belk, and Kohl's. I actually really like the bedding and furniture departments at JCPenny and I even like the diversity of cookware at JCPenny. However, several of the stores have closed in this area and I didn't want to establish a long term registry with a store that might not be around in the future. Kohl's future was less uncertain, but their selection ended up being less diverse when I visited. I had some experience already with Belk. Last year I helped Haley run around the Belk store with the not so little registry gun and gather up items for her wedding registry. So I decided that I'd revisit Belk for mine. Haley was also able to give Belk a positive recommendation based upon her own experiences. It's important to know that items on the registry can be purchased easily if you need to complete any sets later. I also like the quality of the items sold at Belk. You know what they say about quality, "You get what you pay for." Belk's only fault is that they are always busy! The lady manning the registry desk had a couple people in line when we arrived. Luckily, you can register online, so we walked about the store and simply wrote down items that interested us.

Among the items that I wanted to add and that I'll discuss briefly, were pots and pans. There are half a dozen kinds of pots and pans that make it difficult to choose one particular style over another. There are stainless steel, copper bottomed, and non-stick pans. I finally decided on a set of T-fal stainless steel copper bottom pans. My understanding is that a copper bottom distributes the heat quicker and more fully across the bottom of the pan. The only caution is that it usually requires a lower temperature. The non-stick pans were tempting, but I was too afraid they would be easily ruined by Johnny or I using a metal spoon stirring the contents that I decided against it. Other essential cooking instruments that we included were a sauté pan by Calphalon and a porcelain coated Dutch oven stew pot by Cooks Tools. We also added a few items of corningware and bakeware, but I had some of those items already.

For organization, I fell in love with the Oxo brand! I love the design and ingenuity of most of their products. A few of their noteworthy items are the storage containers that have pop tops, angled measuring cups, box grate, and salad spinner. They also have kitchen utensils like pizza wheels, can openers, and locking tongs. I registered for an assortment of those items too.

When I envision my future kitchen, there are several desirable kitchen appliances too. My mom has an immersion blender and Haley demoed her food processor for me when we got back to her apartment to register everything online. When I considered the amount of time these appliances saved during the preparation phase of cooking they earned a spot on the registry. A kitchenaid mixer and a bread machine are the other two items that I've had an eye on for a while. The kitchenaid was one of the first items on my list and it comes in robins egg blue too! Just look how cute it is!
Photo taken from Pinterest and contributed by
Rachel Best on Flickr.

Originally, I didn't want to register for china. Johnny and I have had a tendency of eating out a majority of the time and the times that we do eat meals at either of our houses (which is usually cereal or soup,) it is usually with paper cups and bowls. Of course, when it's just the two of you, not having to do dishes trumps trying to be fancy, even it there are only be two sets of dishes to wash. Johnny and I also live life of the go a lot. Between both of our jobs and the activities of ArtsyU we find it easier to eat out than cook. We have both expressed this "norm" part of our lives to change and actually sit down in our own house and share a home meal. This is perhaps my thoughts behind deciding to register for wedding china. When I lived in Huntsville I did entertain more often and it was nice to share a meal with family and friends on occasion. I would like to start doing this again.

That being said, I am also very practical. When I registered for wedding china I wanted it to be functional. I also didn't want anything too expensive that would cause me to go into convulsions if a piece was accidently broken. Buying something less expensive also meant that Johnny and I could complete it ourselves if we didn't get the entire set. Bearing these points in mind, Haley and I dismissed the fine china and decided to look at the causal china. One design in particular seemed to catch my attention as I looked it over. It was an ivory/off white color with a design that wasn't too ornate and could easily be matched with other odd pieces nicely. The design was by Mikasa and called Italian Countryside. It also happened to be microwave and dishwasher safe, but the best part, was that it was on sale and not terribly expensive. I decided that this set of china would meet my expectations and registered for it.
Photo taken from Pinterest. Contributed by Dillards.

Since then, I discovered why this particular set of china seemed to attract me. I was speaking to my mom about my registry and showing her several of the items, when she remarked how familiar the Italian Countryside pattern looked. In fact, she noted how similar it was to the set of china that she gave me and my brother last Thanksgiving. She had found a few odd pieces at a thrift store in both an off white and sage green color. My brother ended up with the green and I took the off white home. I had put them up in my china cupboard and hadn't really thought about it until mom mentioned its similarity. So I checked the name on the pieces that she had given me and wouldn't you know, it's the same as the Mikasa Italian countryside that I registered for at Belk. How cool is that? I couldn't believe it! Now if I had any doubts about getting china before, I certainly don't now. It appears, it was meant to be! What's great is that I already have a set of three! So thank you Mom!

In the end, I believe our shopping spree to be successful. I found lots of goodies for the registry that will both help me become more functional in the kitchen chaos that it is currently and to reconnect with a prior skill and love, cooking, which I know Johnny will appreciate! It was also a lot of fun catching up with Haley and acting like a couple of girls compiling of list of dream items for my future home! When I got home, Johnny and I reviewed the list and added a few more additions. For the most part, he loved (okay, that's a strong word, he liked) most everything I had picked out and was happy that I had enjoyed myself. Although, he did laugh that I registered for china when I told him, because he knew I originally wasn't going too!

Sunday, May 4, 2014

Wedding Splurge: Photography!

I am all smiles over my photography deal! :)

This post is a bit behind the times, but I am so excited to announce that we have found our wedding photographer. For those of you who know me personally, you know that picking a photographer has not been an easy decision or process. Many of you have probably gathered from previous posts that Johnny and I have been planning our wedding on a budget with the aim of creating a beautiful wedding without procuring a hefty debt in the process.
Establishing a budget is often the first step when planning a wedding. It helps couples to set limits and to allocate funds into categories that are high priorities for them, to help them focus on the areas they want to splurge on or simply cut completely altogether. For some brides, they want to focus on a gorgeous dress, the perfect venue, or spend the majority of the budget on the food. For me, the area I was most willing to splurge a little extra money toward was our wedding photography. Besides our own personal memories on our wedding day, pictures are the best way to preserve those little moments for the future years. However, it's important not to take the idea of splurging too far either or to spend a disproportionate amount on something. In order to keep from doing this, we placed the payment of said photographer to come out of the funds I contributed to our budget. This would guarantee that I ended up with what I wanted and that I'd be careful in my selection. You are far more discerning when it's your own money paying for something! Believe me, the search for our photographer has proven that!
Once we established who would pay for our wedding photography, my next step was to examine the expectations I had for our wedding photographer. Of course, I had very high expectations. I wanted a professional photographer, someone who did photography as their livelihood and not simply on the side. I wanted someone who did this type of work a lot and had lots of experience, who wouldn't be experimenting with ideas or trying out new functions on their camera at my expense. In other words, I didn't want a point and shoot amateur who just got adobe photo shop on their computer. I wanted someone with talent and a good eye, who could produce beautiful pictures and knew how to enhance them in the post production phase. I also wanted all these things at an affordable price...which I didn't think was too much to ask for.
That being said, until I searched Google, I wasn't aware there were so many photographers in the Chattanooga area that specialized in wedding photography. There were still more to choose from on Facebook and in the bridal magazines. I was immediately overwhelmed. I also realized it would be difficult to eliminate photographers based on posted prices, since a high majority of websites excluded pricing altogether, requesting instead my email address or phone number before it would be sent. I found this to be rather irksome, especially when I didn't receive timely responses back from my inquiries. I'm sure it's a clever method of collecting your email address and phone number for future advertising. and demographics. Whatever the reason, it appeared to be a common practice among photographers online. It was refreshing when I ran across websites with published prices, because although I was willing to splurge on photography, I still wanted to keep the expense less than $2000 dollars, preferably much less. I wanted to stay within a reasonable budget without sacrificing talent for the sake of it.
Ultimately, it took about four weeks of diligent searching and patiently sifting through online portfolios before I contracted our wedding photographer. There were several portfolios that caught my eye including: Daisy Moffatt, Our Ampersand, and in particular Innamorata, whom I was strongly considering. During our tasting in March, I noticed one of their wedding albums on display and simply fell in love with their photography style. I also came to find out they were very intimately acquainted with Grandview as a venue, because they shot weddings up there frequently. Unfortunately, their quoted price fell outside of my comfort zone and left no room for anything extra like a casual engagement session, which I knew Johnny placed a higher value upon. We both agreed that causal engagement pictures would likely be more displayable if given as a gift.
I had just about resigned myself to the fact that I would be going with Innamorata and giving up on engagement pictures when I ran across a website called BrideRush. It's a site similar to Groupon and Livingsocial, which provides its consumers, who are Brides in a Rush with discounts on wedding services. There were all types of services available on the site, from floral shops to DJ's to makeup artists, but there was only one photographer listed for the Chattanooga Area, Sergio Plecas Photography. He offered a deal that provided one photographer for 12 hours for just $1000, which originally had been $2000. Well, immediately I looked over his wedding galleries and posted engagement sessions and was impressed and excited that they were quite good! I especially liked his engagement sessions, because his photography style had captured candid moments shared by the couples. I felt assured that he'd do a great job capturing the essence of Johnny and me as a couple!

I was immediately interested in the deal, but there was only one problem....the deal on BrideRush wasn't exactly to my choosing, (I only had Grandview for 8 hours,) so I emailed Sergio about modifying the deal a bit so that it included a second photographer and an engagement session. Sergio quickly responded and was agreeable with modifying the deal for a little extra. Sergio will also spend a couple weeks after our wedding in post-production with the pictures to touch up color and enhance the pictures. He then provides me with a print release which allows me to share them on Facebook and blogger and print as many as I want. A print release is very important if you want to freedom to be able to print your wedding pictures yourself. Without a print release, you have to go through the photographer to have prints made. This can often be very expensive.

So although this post is a little late, I still wanted to share this post with all the people who knew of my painstaking search. Now on to more fun projects like compiling photos and inspiration for our wedding photography! I can't wait to start working with Sergio on this very subject! I've compiled several pictures from Pinterest that I want to modify for our wedding! I'll close with one of the shots that I have in mind!


Image via Denise Bailey on Pinterest
 
This is a shot I took of Grandview's patio. I'd love
to do something similar to the picture on Pinterest!
Can't you image it?